The Top 12 Mistakes Women Make in
Relationships
Building a beautiful relationship will need the suggestions of others who
have overcome the same problems in the past. Where men have their share of
annoying habits they put us through, it's only fair to mention that we aren't
perfect. These are some of the innocent mistakes women can make in a
relationship.
He only loves me if he recalls my...
She can often judge his love for her
based completely on things that he doesn't know he's being assessed on. Such as
recollecting a particular date or recollecting what she wore a certain night.
This can be an unfair way to value how good of a boyfriend he is as he doesn't
know he's being evaluated on this certain portion in the relationship.
Overcrowding him
Sometimes when couples spend too much time together, they
can get tired of their significant other not giving them space. Freedom should
be given to each person so they can spend time to themselves. As the saying
goes, absence makes the heart grow fonder. When done, it can allow them to spend
time with other friends they love, place emphasis on other areas in life, and
allow them come back to the relationship feeling rejuvenated.
Questioning if she's prettier than you
It can often come up in a group
setting where a woman may wonder if another woman in the room is more beautiful
than what her guy finds her. These insecurities are things that need to be beat.
In its place, she shouldn't allow it to dwell in her thoughts, knowing that his
love for her is true.
have overcome the same problems in the past. Where men have their share of
annoying habits they put us through, it's only fair to mention that we aren't
perfect. These are some of the innocent mistakes women can make in a
relationship.
He only loves me if he recalls my...
She can often judge his love for her
based completely on things that he doesn't know he's being assessed on. Such as
recollecting a particular date or recollecting what she wore a certain night.
This can be an unfair way to value how good of a boyfriend he is as he doesn't
know he's being evaluated on this certain portion in the relationship.
Overcrowding him
Sometimes when couples spend too much time together, they
can get tired of their significant other not giving them space. Freedom should
be given to each person so they can spend time to themselves. As the saying
goes, absence makes the heart grow fonder. When done, it can allow them to spend
time with other friends they love, place emphasis on other areas in life, and
allow them come back to the relationship feeling rejuvenated.
Questioning if she's prettier than you
It can often come up in a group
setting where a woman may wonder if another woman in the room is more beautiful
than what her guy finds her. These insecurities are things that need to be beat.
In its place, she shouldn't allow it to dwell in her thoughts, knowing that his
love for her is true.
Mocking what he does with his friends
When it comes to what he does with
them, mocking what he does with his friends is something he's not going to
welcome. In a sense he may feel that she is actually mocking him, regardless of
how silly he acts with them. These small comments may over time be seen as
nagging in his eyes, a no-no in any relationship.
Being too demanding
Where yearly anniversaries are normal in a
relationship, who came up with monthly anniversaries? As not everyone may know
about them, or put as much significance on them. Not only that, but with all
these other expected presents and anniversaries, they can just be a pain and
lose meaning as time pass.
Not speaking with him directly
Making decisions about him from what
someone else said, or something he did that could have been misinterpreted can
often harm a relationship. These are things that can be demanding on a
relationship and should be avoided. Men aren't going to value anything less than
direct communication.
If you have a question, go to him directly. Getting
his opinions and his point of view is what's needed for the relationship to
grow.
He's not telepathic
Both guys and women are dissimilar. This makes
effective communication vital in a functioning relationship. Expecting him to
know how she is feeling or thinking is a trap as old as time. Men aren't psychic
and will not naturally recognize you as your girlfriends do.
This includes
telling him that you're fine over an issue when you're not.
Comparing your relationship to others
There are other relationships that
may be different than yours, where they do different things or bond in different
ways. Comparing your relationship to them can be stressful on him, as he may not
like or have the means to live up to those comparisons. Your relationship should
be cherished for its own individuality and not overshadowed by another
relationship. This involves past relationships.
When it comes to what he does with
them, mocking what he does with his friends is something he's not going to
welcome. In a sense he may feel that she is actually mocking him, regardless of
how silly he acts with them. These small comments may over time be seen as
nagging in his eyes, a no-no in any relationship.
Being too demanding
Where yearly anniversaries are normal in a
relationship, who came up with monthly anniversaries? As not everyone may know
about them, or put as much significance on them. Not only that, but with all
these other expected presents and anniversaries, they can just be a pain and
lose meaning as time pass.
Not speaking with him directly
Making decisions about him from what
someone else said, or something he did that could have been misinterpreted can
often harm a relationship. These are things that can be demanding on a
relationship and should be avoided. Men aren't going to value anything less than
direct communication.
If you have a question, go to him directly. Getting
his opinions and his point of view is what's needed for the relationship to
grow.
He's not telepathic
Both guys and women are dissimilar. This makes
effective communication vital in a functioning relationship. Expecting him to
know how she is feeling or thinking is a trap as old as time. Men aren't psychic
and will not naturally recognize you as your girlfriends do.
This includes
telling him that you're fine over an issue when you're not.
Comparing your relationship to others
There are other relationships that
may be different than yours, where they do different things or bond in different
ways. Comparing your relationship to them can be stressful on him, as he may not
like or have the means to live up to those comparisons. Your relationship should
be cherished for its own individuality and not overshadowed by another
relationship. This involves past relationships.
Never on time
When going out, it's notorious that women can make their
guys late for their appointment. What happens often is that their partner
changes clothes a few times. To top it off, she will ask her partner's outlook
about their apparel, only to neglect whatever support they had to offer.
Making him like your friends
Sometimes people just don't get along. So
when they don't get along and may in fact not like each other, your interfering
isn't going to help. After all, he's not dating them. Trying to make them spend
time mutually can often upset them both, as it's never going to happen that they
will like each other.
Secret plans
Women can be ingenious, particularly when it comes to making
others do what they want. As an example; getting him to go to the theatre by
discreetly picking a restaurant on the same block. Men may not voice it, but
they know when you have a secret goal.
They don't like talking as much as you
When it comes to what women are
interested in and what they chat about, they will point out everything including
all the little details. Men just aren't as concerned in the minor facts, that's
just the way they are. Getting him fascinated about the little issues of a topic
can be as unreasonable as him getting you fascinated in cars.
All relationships take time and practice with the same partner to make into a
long lasting and beautiful one. Using these suggestions, along with endurance
and readiness to change, any relationship can be made better.
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When going out, it's notorious that women can make their
guys late for their appointment. What happens often is that their partner
changes clothes a few times. To top it off, she will ask her partner's outlook
about their apparel, only to neglect whatever support they had to offer.
Making him like your friends
Sometimes people just don't get along. So
when they don't get along and may in fact not like each other, your interfering
isn't going to help. After all, he's not dating them. Trying to make them spend
time mutually can often upset them both, as it's never going to happen that they
will like each other.
Secret plans
Women can be ingenious, particularly when it comes to making
others do what they want. As an example; getting him to go to the theatre by
discreetly picking a restaurant on the same block. Men may not voice it, but
they know when you have a secret goal.
They don't like talking as much as you
When it comes to what women are
interested in and what they chat about, they will point out everything including
all the little details. Men just aren't as concerned in the minor facts, that's
just the way they are. Getting him fascinated about the little issues of a topic
can be as unreasonable as him getting you fascinated in cars.
All relationships take time and practice with the same partner to make into a
long lasting and beautiful one. Using these suggestions, along with endurance
and readiness to change, any relationship can be made better.
More Interesting Articles to Check Out Here:
11 Questions All Women Should Ask
or
The Men Made Easy eBook Review